I was just on MySpace, looking over the profiles of some of my "friends," and I had an idea for all the lovesick girls, whose profiles are completely devoted to one boy: How about if you quit worrying about your "boyfriend". You are NOT in love with him. He is NOT in love with you. The chances that you will be together forever are EXTREMELY slim. Trust me.
So, instead of worrying about "him" ("your love"), how about if you worry about Him. Your Love. He loves you PASSIONATELY. He pursues you. He is chasing you. He will NEVER leave you. This boy, your current "love of your life," he WILL leave you eventually. So quit focusing on him, and focus on HIM.
Here's a hint, too: If you don't know who the HIM is that I'm talking about, do one of three things:
- Get a Bible
- Keep living miserably, searching for love in your "boyfriend"
- Send me a message or comment. I'll point you towards someone who can hopefully help you.
I hope you'll take this to heart, and give it some thought. It's taken me a long time to get to the point where I can say this and mean it, and believe it. He WILL be everything that you need. Let Him fill your void.
